Every once in a while, a message arrives that reminds you why you chose to share your story with the world. Today, my heart was touched by one of those messages about my novel Sjeti me se (Remember Me).
“Dear Sanela, yesterday I read your book, Remember Me, in one sitting. I cried more than ever before while reading a book. Especially during the scenes when Selma gave birth to her child and refused to let the baby go after everything she had survived. Warmest and heartfelt regards.”
As an author, there is no greater gift than knowing that something you wrote touched another person’s heart.
When I sat down to write Remember Me, I wanted to tell a story that would honor the experiences of those whose voices were lost in the noise of history. I wanted to write about loss, survival, love, grief, and the strength it takes to keep going when life asks the impossible of us.
The scene this reader mentioned was one of the hardest for me to write. Even now, years later, I can still remember the emotions that poured onto those pages. To know that those feelings reached someone else so deeply is both humbling and moving.
Writing is often a solitary journey. We spend countless hours alone with our thoughts, our memories, and our characters, never really knowing how our words will be received once they leave our hands.
Then a message like this arrives.
And suddenly, all those quiet hours feel worthwhile.
To the reader who took the time to write to me, thank you. Your words touched me just as much as my story touched you.
With gratitude,
Sanela
About the AuthorSanela Ramić Jurich is a survivor of the Yugoslav war and the author of several novels inspired by lived experience. She writes to remember, to honor, and to ensure that even the darkest chapters are never erased. View Sanela's complete profile


Sanela Ramić Jurich is a survivor of the Yugoslav war and the
author of several novels inspired by lived experience.
She writes to remember, to honor, and to ensure that even
the darkest chapters are never erased.







Sanela Ramic Jurich is a survivor of the Yugoslav war and the
author of several novels inspired by lived experience.
She writes to remember, to honor, and to ensure that even
the darkest chapters are never erased.




The day I left my home country forever was August 26, 1992 — my sixteenth birthday
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